It’s hard not to compare your children. Yes, I did it. During Evan’s first year, I constantly was comparing his accomplishments to my notes in Ben’s baby book. And for the most part, he kept up. Physically, he was right on track with the rolling over, sitting, crawling, and walking milestones. But I was worried when I saw that Ben was already saying a few words before his first birthday, and Evan still didn’t have words by 15 months.
But he’s talking now! Dog, bird, deer, cow (and lots of animals sounds); phone, hi, and bye; train, tunnel, choo-choo; eye, nose, mouth, ear; Mommy, Daddy, Ben, Santa; car, truck, airplane, tractor, bus, ready, set, go!; eat, drink, and milk (and these are usually said very excitedly or in a demanding way seeing as he is always hungry and thirsty); swing, slide; no; door and knock-knock; moon; bubbles, book, ball; again; cold, hot (then he proceeds to blow on anything that’s hot); hat, sock, shoe (and he loves to run around the house with someone’s shoe on!), etc. His favorite word right now is “Mine!” (and we hear that a lot).
And he’s such an explorer! He’s into so much more trouble than we can remember Ben ever was. He enjoys pulling all of the wipes out of the package, going through wallets and purses, dumping diapers and clothes out of his dresser and onto the floor, getting out all of our cooking utensils and silverware to play with, and just making any mess he can get his hands on.
My favorite story lately was the day I realized the house was quiet while I was doing dishes. He typically is right by my side trying to climb in the dishwasher, so I knew he was up to something. I found that he had opened our bedroom door, walked into our bathroom, climbed up on the bathtub to get onto my counter area, and had turned on the water as he slid into the sink to splash! He was so proud of himself and was having so much fun! It was hard not to be scared and angry; it was very difficult not to laugh…
But as much trouble as he is, he is also such a blessing and a joy in our lives. He’s a chubby, cute, bundle of laughs who can brighten any room he walks into. He is a lot of fun to have around!